Tinta Hati: Let Go

Bismillah.

Assalamualaikum.

it's almost a month that i'm not writing anything here. starting the year with a full packed schedule. Alhamdulillah :) it's started with writing down the dreams & wishlists on what i want to become, what i want to improve, what i want to have, and what i want to give. inshaAllah, may Allah bless & guide.

every week was fulled with new year special camp-> SPECTACULAR 2014--> trainings and work work work. rumah hanyalah tempat untuk tidur & mandi sahaja. Allahu Akbar.

but it's not that what i want to write it up here.

LEARN TO LET GO

we can never run away from facing trials, difficulties, tribulations either from the people around us or the surroundings. sometimes, it is hard to deal with the people that are close to you, that will stress out your life. it can be their negative attitude and thinking towards their own life or towards you that sometimes will knock you down.

we have to acknowledge, people will come and go in your life. only the true one will stay.

it might break you down, hurt you most. they might complain to you, insult you, provoke you,betrayed you.
but some of them, is not someone that you can't let them go, or shut them out.
REMEMBER,we can't change or control people. it must be started from themselves, from their heart.

but only YOU can CONTROL and CHANGE yourself.

the only thing that you can do is

LET GO of the negative thoughts, negative emotions.

DON'T hold the GRUDGE.

"If we hold grudges, our spirits get stuck like trapped birds. We can’t fly the way we’re supposed to, because our own resentments bind us and hold us down. When you hate someone, they don’t feel it. Only you do. It affects only your own heart, until your heart hardens and your vision narrows, and life loses its joy and zest." - Wael Abdelgawad

learn how to forgive and forget. it might be hard. but have faith that it will going to worth it.

Let go of the resentment of the past. Delete them. do it for your own sake, for your own happiness.

because letting go and forgive is the only choice that you have to bring you to happiness.

whatever others have done to you, either bad or worst; Let it go. Consign to Allah and forgive them.

and whatever we have done bad to people, apologize and ask for forgiveness from them and Allah Taala. Allah is the Most Forgiving the Most Merciful.

“Pardon them and overlook – Allah loves those who do good.” (Qur’an 5:13)

"The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) was seated in a gathering with the sahabah (his companions) when he looked towards the entrance and said, “A man of Paradise is coming.” At that instance someone who seemed to be very ordinary entered the masjid where they were seated. One sahabi was curious as to why the Prophet had said such a thing about this man, so he followed the man to his house. The sahabi told the man of Paradise that he was a traveler, and was invited to stay as a guest. For three days the sahabi watched the man of Paradise, but he saw nothing unusual in the man’s character or worship. Finally he told the man what the Prophet had said and asked him what was so special about him. The man thought for a long time and said, “There might be one thing — before going to sleep every night I forgive everyone and sleep with a clean heart.”

the most powerful gifts that Allah has given to human being are

HEART

MIND

protect it well. don't give the key or password through your heart and mind to them who doesn't even deserve it.
it's your life.Only you can control and protect you life.

You are the designer of your own life.

Draw it well.

forgive yourself. don't blame yourself or hate yourself.

forget the past. and start a new.

'"If you feel that you have been corrupted by sin, then the glory of Islam is that innocence can be yours again, with tawbah. We Muslims don’t believe in original sin. All human beings were created pure, on the fitrah. That is your birthright." - Wael Abdelgawad